On Monday i post up matters regarding Heart vs Mind, carrying on to this week post, is a matter regarding Parents. I know there are alot of sincere lovers out there but they are being held back by their parents. They really love each other but they cant be together due to their parents restriction. So, if u r engaged into such a relationship, what should u do?
Number 1 question which is of course the most important question. What is the main purpose for your parents to work so hard and send u guys to college and university for? Answer to that is, To Study. Your 1st Priority is study and if u can handle that, your parents are much likely not to worry about any other things about you. If u hv a bf/gf . hang out everyday, meet everytime and yet...you can get great scores, i m sure ur parents wouldnt disagree. But, even if u dun hv a bf/gf and u hang out every night with friends or join too much clubs affecting ur study, even so, your parents will definitely going to give you some messages. So, the question is , "What should i do"
Simple....
1) Get your study foundation strongly build 1st.
2) Manage ur own timetable. What time to do what.
3) Fully understand the consequences of ur doings.
4) Know ur limits of being in a relationship now.
If u can understand, achieve and control all this factors, only then ur time is ready to be engaged into a relationship. now let me tell you what will happen, if u are goin to argue with ur parents decisions of not letting u having a bf/gf.
1) The ties and bond between you and ur parents will be weaken.
2) You will loose their trust.
3) You will not feel loved. instead u will feel deeply regret.
4) To the worst extend, you will be removed away from the college/university that u r currently at now.
5) Not only that, the story wun ends. if u go to the other college, ur parents will still continue to think if u r goin to get another bf/gf or not, UNLESS you shows good results.
6) In additions, just say u really dun hv a bf/gf but i wasted most of ur time is socializing and mixing around with friends and this causes ur result to be pull down..STILL, they will think u r fooling around in that new college. Your life will not be any much happier if u loose ur Family Trust.
Now think of this. Let me raise some questions for you.
1) Is it much worth it, for you forcefully be in a relationship with someone u 'like' and in return of that, the price to pay is to HURT your parents.
2) Is it correct for you to argue with someone that have raise u up for more than 18 years and more with their own pure effort, just because of a guy/ girl. ( In terms of argue with ur father)
3) Will u hv the heart to HURT ur love ones, the one that care for u, to wake up every morning for years to feed u milk for the past few years of ur early growth.
4) Will u hv the heart to HURT and talk back to someone who hv bare you inside her womb for more that 8 years! Taking care of u, watching ever step she made in order to make sure u r not hurt. Will u hv the heart to hurt them, over someone who u admire for a couple of months.
To all the lovers out there who is reading my post, who are in a relationship but are so call lying to their parents that they are not. Especially to the guys, cuz i know the ladies can easily let go, but its the guys are those who needs more attention. Always remember this...
In Life, you can have many girlfriends, but you only have one mother.
Think wisely, look around you and start counting how many stuff u hv now, is all obtained my ur bare hands. Look at the surrounding around you, who made it possible for u to be here, who give u the opportunity to be here.
Now, how many times have you heard your friends talking bad about their parents, maybe just saying they are naggy, or some even say they are stupid. How many times have u heard kids saying words that are not pleasant over their parents. Alot? alittle? now, again i ask, how many times have you heard parents telling bad about their child. None? Rarely? Think about it.
If got parents reading my post, i will too challenge them now, ill ask them over here, Which parents on earth do not love their child? i can guarantee you that, no parents will step up to me and tell me, I don't. To all my friends out there and to all the readers who are about the same age as me, think about this. Our parents do not hv much time with us, how many more Tens are they goin to live. To be with you. So, please start to appreciate them when u hv the time and opportunity. Cuz when the time has come, they hv to leave and we can do nothing about it. Without them, you wouldn't exist, but without you, they will still exist.
Blood is thicker than Water. (904 Words)
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