Anger and Arguments.

Anger and Argument always come along in a relationship. Its sometime very common and both in every relationship must except it. Sweet does not comes without sour. Argument in a relationship is good, it helps to increase the level of endurance between both partners, but it all depends on the ability of each other on how understanding they are in order to withstand the temporary argument. Anger is found in anyone and everyone and normally the level of anger is proportional to the level of care. If someone dun care for you, they wun scold you and even talk to you. That is why, we all get scolding from our parents. Its because they love us and care for us.

Anger are divided into 2 types, Self Centered Anger and Caring Anger. Self centered anger are those type of argument in which one scold the other in a way which is rather dry. like example, Why are you...haiz! You know it very well that i dun like it right! Omg, i cant believe it! Dun talk to me anymore!. This are the kind of words used in a a self centered anger. Everything is about him. The caring type of anger are anger that are express in terms of love. Like, Why arent you going to eat! You are goin to get gastric you know! No! Stop, i dun care, you have to go slp now, i wun talk to you anymore!, your exam is at 8am and its already 2am! this are anger of care. So, to those people who are reading this, which type you fall into? if u fall into the 2nd one, you should be happy. If u fall into the 1st one...hmm..start to think where went wrong.

Do you know if u engaged into a relationship with argument is better than engaging into a relationship without an argument? Why would i say so, This is the reason, if both parties always argue, understand and settle and again argue, understand other situation and settle. There chances of breaking up is lesser. For those people who are really sweet together and never argue b4 are slightly more dangerous. Cuz when something of a misunderstanding occurs, they get angry, and duno what to do. as the result, break up!. or they will think, erm..ok lar ok lar is my fault, eventhough its not their fault and after awhile, one will start to wonder, is he really for me? after few more argument, Break Up! There are 2 reasons how couples can be together that do not argue and be very sweet to each other.

1) They both are very very understanding to the point one can always tolerate the other action and feel comfortable with it...or....
2) They both are born to be together. lol..in another words, they hv strong feeling of admiration even before they know one and others name.
(Note : This is rare)

So for readers who are in an argument with ur bf/gf, start to think which type of argument you guys are at now. Remember, Anger in a relationship is normally, stated as this : The more angry someone is on you, the more they care about you, the more they dun wan you to get hurt, both in externally and also internally. Anger is proportional to care. If both of u guys argue bcuz both if u really wan to care for each other. Advise to this is, Learn how to Give and Take. Of course, dun give all and dun take all. 50% is just the right way it should be.

Mr Tai : Our Anger makes us unhappy almost everyday, so if we want to live happily, we have to learn not to get angry. (618 words)