Last week, i talk about anger and argument. so what if you guys are inside and argument and and feel very angry, even after reading the last week blog, u still feel someone is not right and still not satisfy. Even though, you receive the kind of scolding that is caring but u still feel he is wrong. Maybe, his anger have cause an emotional effect on you. Then what should you do? hmm?
This week, im goin to talk about the differences between Feelings and Reality. Before i continue to elaborate more, i would like to talk abit more on, What we should do if we get caught into a situation when we cant control ourselves. Always remember this saying : Use your heart to see the future but always use the mind to decide the future. What do i mean by this.
You see, we as human are naturally being drive thru our day by feelings and emotions. If you are happy, everything around you seems to be bright and alive, if you are sad, then the world seems to be dark and gloomy. When u r happy, you tend to hv more energy to do things and result in performing well. And as of the opposite when u r sad. So humans are being drive thru the day by our emotions. However, we must not get influence and let this emotion of ours to take effect into our daily actions. We can only make use of it to create a better day for us.
Like example, i m very sad, maybe bcuz my gf scolded me, i cant mix my emotion with my actions on which example i m studying. I cant be thinking of her all the time and neglect my studies. Earlier, i mentioned, use ur heart to see the future and use ur mind to make the decision. So in this case, we must use the head to think, if i focus on my studies now, do well for my tmr final exam and get good grades. not to think of a way, i must think of something real quick to comfort her b4 she ask for a break up. Complicated? If so, then ill give another example.
Lets say i really love a girl now and bcuz of her i m goin to stay in a place to study. Ur heart tell you, stay here and study so u can be with her. Ur mind say, no, go oversea and study in a better university. Which one would you choose. If you use ur heart to make the decision instead of ur Mind, and ended up choosing to stay bcuz of that special someone, now let me raise up a question. What would you do if things didnt turn out to be so good as you dream and after couple of months u break up with her. What will you do? Regret? If ur motivation to stay in one place 2 study is bcuz of her and now she is no more yours, Where have your motivation gone to? So, the main point is, even at times, when things seems good as it seems, always think for what it would be in the future. No one can foretell your future, only you can create the path to your own destiny. Well, to some readers out there, it might be a llittle bit confusing, how about a give another example that is simpler to understand.
One day, you have finally finish downloaded a movie that u wanted to watch over the pass 1 year. you cant wait to watch it, cuz ur favourite actor is on the show. So u decided to click onto the play button and watch the movie. 30 Min till the movie finish and the climax is on. however if u r goin to finish that last 30 min, you are goin to be 13 min late to class. What will you do?
a) Stop the movie, go to class, come back and continue to watch.
b) Finish the movie, and be late to class
c) Finish the movie, and skip class as you are already late. lol
So, which one hv you chose? If ur answer is (a), you are a wise person and knows your priority. You know which is more important and which is not. If you chose the answer (b) then u hv indirectly caught into 'internity blinds reality', u r following ur heart and not setting ur priority. If you chose answer (c), then i wish u good luck. lol. A movie is never more important that ur lectures.
So coming back to couples who hv been into an argument and still cant solve things up. Think it as a way, the argument wun continue forever. its goin to last for alittle while, and while is does, grab the chance to know what is happening and prevent it from happening again. Always remember, Anger is proportional to Care..The earth itself is not round...Nothing is perfect and perfection need not be presence for Happiness to exist. (847 Words)
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