Thursday, April 22, 2010

How relationship starts off?

To many people out there, have you ever been into a relationship that is like, you are not in a relationship ?..hmm..means what?..Means like you are ur partner spend time together like, 7am in the morning till 2am everyday, but are not bf/gf. Hmm, but before i talk about that, let me tell you how relationship normally starts off..

First, a boy and a girl will hang out together and spend most of their time together. the guy will think about the girl and remembers everything they do together. Like walk together, eat together, study together and so on. After a little while, the girl will get use to the situation and starts to find him every time. When time grew longer like about 2 weeks, the guy will start to think that he like the girl and then confess to the girl. Why will he feel like that?. These are the reasons:

1) He feel that the girl he have been hanging out for over some time comforts him, like eg made him happy and forget about the rest.
2) He feels lonely. lol..^^
3) No one have been so close to him b4 except his lovely mother. ( this is for those who dun hv a gf b4)

The girl will think about it and might end up accepting him. Why leh? This are the reasons

1) She feels that she is a nice guy.
2) She feel comfortable being with the guy. Like that guy always make her laugh. (Reason behind reason : cuz they hang out most of the time)
3) She begin to think, ok lar..lets give it a try..
4) Rare case : She feels bad if she reject you, beside you are a nice guy.
5) Super rare : the girl will really fall in love with that guy. unless she notice that guy in 1st sight)

They both starts to hold hands and they both are together. Isnt it sweet? lol..
Actually, to get engage in a relationship, its very easy. Its handling it that make things so difficult. Love is so simple that its hard to achieve. As long as both understand one another and both feels comfortable with one another decision then everything will work out. Normally to relationships who start of after 2 weeks of really knowing one another will not really work out,,,It might last for about 1 month or 2. Why leh?..too fast. 2 weeks of time is ever enough to get to know one another. Even u really like that person, you have to wait for the right time.

Saying of the day :
Wan Wen : Slow and Steady Wins the Race..:P (431 words)

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