Whao! its been sometime ever since i updated my blog. Its time for me to start my engine again. Time for the next ride.You know, everytime when i log into facebook and wanted to add some new friends, the gender always turn out to be male and if not its always female...Why does it have to be like this? LOL...so i began to wonder are male and female really of both different kind or we both are the same?
You know human being really does have to go through a cycle and each and everyone of us have the chance to be a male and a female. Somehow or rather is kinda thru as we grow up. What do i mean by that? Lol... This is in terms of character. Im goin to explain this in term or relationship. When we are young, at about the age of 17 - 28, have you noticed that in most of the relationship it is always the guy who have been giving out more than receiving? The guy who show more love to the girl than the other way round? As we grew older, as in middle age, 40 onwards till about 60. Things began to change. This time around, the women began to love the men more than the men love the women. Hmm, or should i say this as, the women began to show more love to the men. Each sex seems to change.
At teenage life, you 'guys' out there might be complaining things like, how come i always have to do everything for her. When she get into an argument, its always me who apologies regardless on who is right and wrong. She always say she love me but she does not show as such. Young men of 17-28 always complain about this things. In the women point of view, they usually do things quietly. They always do things that the guy wouldn't know and would want him to find it out by himself and feel good about her doing. Teenage girls always have something to hide, like their love towards there boyfriend. Why? because if they show their love to their max, they are afraid that the guy wouldn't be able to appreciate them. Appreciation and Respect for girls comes in to be the top in the list. Then what will happen to them as they grew older. When Both become as 1. When both world are merge to form 1 completely new world. The answer to that is, everything changes. might sound bad, but this is how it normally work out.
After Marriage, when the men carrier is at his top priority, when the women stays at home and look after the kids, everything changes. The Love shown by the men to his wife began to decrease due to his work load and the stress he is facing. He began to focus on more on the term, "How to make more money?" while as time goes on, the women began to think about the term, "Does he still love me?". As time goes on, argument and quarrel occurs due to this facts. The men wouldn't have time to spend with her as he is always thinking or his work, while the women feel bad for 'feeling' neglected. This is why both parties must sit down and talk about it. Sort things out and find the best solution. Getting to know one another is never a one day thing, it takes a really long time for one to understand and accept the other. Why have Adults been quarreling after 20, 30 years of marriage? Can answer that question? ^^
Teenage mindset of thinking is always " i love you, you love me' kinda thing, but as we all grow older, its all about, "i understand how you feel, you understand how i feel"
So for those guys/girls out there who always been thinking, he does not love me as much as i love him or she does not love me as much as i love her. Well, maybe the time have not come yet. take things slowly. Why rush? You are still young, u still got plenty of time. Always remember, Slow and Steady Wins The Race. ( Words : 709)
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